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1、生命中的那個(gè)“她” Tomorrowyoumaygetaworkingwoman[職業(yè)女性],butyoushouldmarryherwiththesefactsaswell. Hereisagirl,whoisasmucheducatedasyouare;whoisearningalmostasmuchasyoudo; One,whohasdreamsandaspirations[抱負(fù)]justasyouhavebecausesheisashumanasyouare; One,whohasneverenteredthekitcheninherlif
2、ejustlikeyouoryoursisterhaven’t,asshewasbusyinstudiesandcompetinginasystemthatgivesnospecialconcession[讓步]togirlsfortheirculinary[烹飪的]achievements; One,whohaslivedandlovedherparents&brothers&sisters,almostasmuchasyoudofor20to25yearsofherlife; One,whohasbravelyagreedtoleavebehind[
3、丟下]allthat,herhome,peoplewholoveher,toadopt[接受]yourhome,yourfamily,yourwaysandevenyourfamilyname; One,whoissomehowexpectedtobeamaster-cheffromDayOne,whileyousleepoblivious[遺忘的]toherpredicament[窘?jīng)r]inhernewcircumstances,environmentandthatkitchen;4 One,whoisexpectedtomakethetea,firs
4、tthinginthemorning,andcookfoodattheendoftheday,evenifsheisastiredasyouare,maybemore,andyetnevereverexpectedtocomplain;tobeaservant,acook,amother,awife,evenifshedoesn’twantto;andislearningjustlikeyouareastowhatyouwantfromher;andisclumsy[笨拙的]andsloppy[粗心的]attimesandknowsthatyouwon’tl
5、ikeitifsheistoodemanding[苛求的],orifshelearnsfasterthanyou; One,whohasherownsetoffriends,andthatincludesboysandevenmenatherworkplacetoo,those,whosheknowsfromschooldaysandyetiswillingtoputallthatontheback-burners[將……擱置一邊]toavoidyourirrational[不合理的]jealousy,unnecessarycompetitionandyo
6、urinherent[內(nèi)在的]insecurities; Yes,shecandrinkanddancejustaswellasyoucan,butwon’t,simplybecauseyouwon’tlikeit,eventhoughyousayotherwise; One,whocanbelatefromworkonceinawhilewhendeadlines[截止期限],justlikeyours,aretobemet; One,whoisdoingherlevelbestandwantstomakethismostimportantrelat
7、ionshipinherentirelifeagrandsuccess,ifyoujusthelphersomeandtrusther; One,whojustwantsonethingfromyou,asyouaretheonly4onesheknowsinyourentirehouse―yourunstinted[不吝嗇的]support,yoursensitivities[敏感性]andmostimportantly―yourunderstanding,orlove,asyoumaycallit. Butnotmanyguysunderstandt
8、his, Pleaseappreciate[領(lǐng)會(huì)]