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1、學(xué)會接受這個世界，生活將更快樂
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4、???????我們能讓這世界變得更美好么？這句話本身就是一個錯誤的假設(shè)，認為這世界不好。反過來，我們應(yīng)該說世界就是這樣的，沒有什么絕對的好與不好。這是我們選擇的生活方式，也是我們喜歡的生活方式。換個角度看待事物：接受并試著理解。接受這世界，你會快樂?！ 癟hereisnothingeithergoodorbad,butthinkingmakesitso.”—WilliamShakespeare,“Hamlet” Oneofthegreates
5、tsourcesofunhappiness,inmyexperience,isthedifficultywehaveinacceptingthingsastheyare. Withoutjudgment,withoutwishingforotherwise. Whenweseesomethingwedon'tlike,wewishitcouldbedifferent—wecryoutforsomethingbetter.Thatmaybehumannature,orperhapsit'ssomethingtha
6、t'singrainedinourculture. Therootoftheunhappinessisn'tnecessarilythatwewantthingstobedifferent,however:it'sthatwedecidedwedidn’tlikeitinthefirstplace.We'vejudgeditasbad,ratherthansaying,"It'snotbadorgood,itjustis." Anexample:Inmyrecentpost,ABeautifulMethodto
7、FindPeaceofMind,quiteafewcommentersthoughtmyoutlookwasnegative,pessimistic,orfatalistic…becauseIsaidyoushouldexpectpeopletomessup,expectthingstogodifferentlythanyouplanned,andthatyoushouldembracethat. It'stoonegativetoexpectthingstogowrong,theysaid.However:it
8、'sonlynegativeifyouseeitasnegative.Ifyoujudgeitasbad. Instead,youcouldacceptitasthewaytheworldworks—asthewaythingsactuallyare.Andtrytounderstandwhythatis,andembraceit.Asitis. Thiscanbeappliedtowhateveryoudo:whetheritbehowotherpeopleactatwork,howpoliticsworks
9、andhowdepressingthenewsmediacanbe.Acceptthesethingsastheyare,andtrytounderstandwhythey'rethatway. It'llsaveyoualotofgrief,becauseyou'llnolongersay,"Oh,Iwishthingsdidn'tsuck!" Doesitmeanyoucanneverchangethings?Notatall.Butchangethingsnotbecauseyoucan'tacceptt
10、hingsastheyare,butbecauseyouenjoytheprocessofchange,oflearningandgrowing. Canwemakethisworldabetterplace?Again,that'sassumingthatit'sabadplacerightnow.Butinstead,youcouldsaytheworldisjustwhatitis—andthat'sneithergoodnorbad.Youcansaythatyou'llcontinuetotrytodo
11、thingstohelpothers,togrowasaperson,tomakeadifferenceinthisworld—notbecauseyou'resuchabadpersonnow,ortheworldsucks,butbecausethat'sthepathyouchoosetotake,becauseyouenjoythatpath. A
